Now that really is worth thinking about.
The more senior you become, the next birthday that passes, the more complex things seem to get – more stakeholders to satisfy, greater consequences of failure, higher expectations, shorter time frames, a few health gliches etc. The list goes on.
As a committed human being, what options do you have beyond hiding under the duvet? You can try and be clever – look for the causes of problems – ask WHY? However when we look into problems, we find more problems and become ‘problem saturated’. Now, that can’t be good.
The lines between real, perceived and completely made up problems become obscure with helplessness a close companion. A different option, rather than looking backwards into problems, is to look forward to possibilities.
Ask yourself, what does success look like? How would I know things were moving forward? What would life look like if the problem wasn’t there, how would I feel? Suspend judgment and answer these questions – come up with at least 30 bullet points (50 if you’re feeling adventurous).
Then step back – what you’ll start discovering are the clues and signposts to make progress into possibilities around which you can design your own way forward.
The moral of this note? Thinking problems makes you an expert in problems. Thinking possibilities makes you an expert in progress. Sit with this sentiment for a while and see if it makes sense. Better still, experiment with it and see what happens. What have you got to lose?
Guest blog from Adie Shariff
(Thanks to Evan George for the title quote)